哦，Oscar，我爱你的刻薄！

◎ When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one's self, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what world calls a romance.

◎ When a love comes to an end, weaklings cry, efficient ones instantly find another love and wise already had one in reserve.

◎ If you are not too long, I will wait here for you all my life.

◎ When a man has once loved a woman he will do anything for her except continue to love her.

◎ A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal.

◎ Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes, they forgive them.

◎ When I was young I thought that money was the most important thing in life; now that I am old I know that it is.

◎ I like persons better than principles, and I like persons with no principles better than anything else in the world.

◎ Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat.

◎ Nothing is so aggravating than calmness.

◎ A gentleman is one who never hurts anyone's feelings unintentionally.

◎ It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you place the blame.

◎ Democracy means simply the bludgeoning of the people by the people for the people.

◎ A thing is not necessarily true because a man dies for it.

◎ America is the only country that went from barbarism to decadence without civilization in between.

愿上天有美意

无意中在某处又看见原先博客的链接。顺手点击过去，满以为会出现该链接已经失效的提示……还来不及伤春悲秋，却赫然发现那里已经是别人的领地。

忙碌而慌乱，这是个谁也不会为谁停留的年代。你说要走，人说不送，是谓潇洒。会踌躇三天，已是慎重。能回味一个星期，就好算长情了。博客服务商们犯不上为谁保留一个失效的链接。我们到来，离开。我们乐此不疲。总会有人在相同的地方上演类似的情节，只是换过人物。

然而既然舍弃，就不必这样感怀。而这样的感怀，又未必真的那样令人沉重。不知为什么，此刻我的脑海里总浮现一句漫不经心的玩笑话——那不过是一片浮云。

无论如何，愿此处落英缤纷，久有留香。愿上天有美意。

十年慢歌

这是听陈老师的第十年。我喜欢她清新又有点儿悲伤的人文情歌，而且她的有些老歌会让我想起你。

后来发觉，许多人离开了或忘掉了，却会留下一首歌给我。把那些情绪和回忆储存进Ipod，以为可以随时随地拿出来温习，却发现它们已经迷失在日益庞大的曲库中。即便某天随机听到，些许小事就会让我匆忙按下停止键。就像这个慌乱的季节里，太多事情可以打断我们的旋律。

不知道我在你那里会不会也有一首歌呢？有段时间很想你听《就算全世界与我为敌》。可是此刻，就像她另一首歌里唱的，“我没有勇气大声地说……”